

I have to apologize, but i cant understand what you are saying, in this post. Ill break it down a bit:
Nested Family (unshared family) = You cant edit either the Instance or the Type Parameters, from the Project, regardless of if the parameters are Shared Parameters.
Nested Shared Family = You can edit the TYPE Parameters from the Project. You cannot edit the INSTANCE parameters in the project at all, you would have to have the IP's connected to Parameters in the PARENT family, and control them that way.
Project Parameters (Shared Parameters) added to all elements of Category through the Project Parameters or Schedule dialogue: These can be Instance, and can be edited for Nested Shared Family instances, AS LONG AS the Shared Parameter in question DOES NOT also exist in the Nested Shared Family itself. If it does, it wont work.
An example of this, is our Field Layout Parameters (Number, Northing, Easting, Elevation, Description). They are Shared Instance parameters, but they have to be added in the project template/file, NOT in the content itself, or they cant be edited in the Shared Nested Families.
What your colleague is suggesting (if i am reading it correctly, and there is a chance im reading in incorrectly) simply doesnt make sense, hence doesnt work.